Thank you to all of the soldiers, men and woman who risk their lives to protect our freedoms. thank you to the families of those soldiers who worry and sacrifice their spouses or sons or daughters to fight for our country. we were part of that community for 3 years and there is no way to truly understand the sacrifice until you have lived it. when matt got the phone call that he was going to iraq i bawled, almost hysterically. i couldn't imagine him going to a war zone, how would i talk to him, i would miss him horribly and it was dangerous. it turned out to be an even harder time than we expected when jon died while he was gone. i think that is the hardest time we have ever had. matt couldn't help at all and he didn't get to say good bye to jon in the ways that we did but he had his own private memorial playing IZ songs and looking at the picture jon had taken and sent matt that now hangs over our bed. so this memorial day is for remembering the soldiers who fight for our country, for the ones who have lost their lives in battle and for our loved ones who we miss dearly. happy memorial day!

p.s. pioneer woman has awesome "coming home" pictures on her blog!!